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“There is someone in my life ...who become very imp to me in a short period of time...like..it's been only 7months and we are so close.... At first...we decided that we'll never attached with eachother and forever in this situationship...like best friends... At starting it's going so so so.. good...we had the best lest chemistry ever..we love eachother....share everything... And if I mentioned other guy infront of him.. he just get so protective and said..always "i can't imagine this...and I don't want you with that guy and all..." I was like .."okk.okk" Whenever I got out..he asks...be careful of men..and get a Lil possessive which I genuinely like...and he is available for me 24/7 always..and we had a really good convo every night... Then he got a job which is a night shift... starting 2months was good...we are managing so good..and our connection is there too... But like now...after that...he got so so busy...he didn't even see my texts...and not even we had calls ....I missed that version so much...but I truly tired my very best to understand him. Then suddenly i got so sick...and got typhoid and told him...and he message me when he gets time but not that much affection that he showed before...but it was okay...then...one night I know that he ride his bike to home at 4am in the morning as his shift end...i called him cause he didn't vall me for so many days...so,i did that... And his reaction confused me so much... He asked..,why did you call...??like 3×times more than that..and I was like...i missed you that's why... He said..."if someone sits behind me..you will fail all my plan and work.." I was soo confused by this ...and at that time I Didn't understand what he meant by it... Then I said.."if there is..then you can cut my call..." I said in a sarcastic way...but he said... smilingly.."there's no one..." Then after that...as we talk and ending the call...he said...more than 18× times or more than that..."don't call suddenly okk...don't call..like this..." I was like.."okay...I'll never initiate the call now...from now on"then we end the call... After that...we didn't have that much good text conversations and the call thing..it's gone now completely...but he keep texting me every day "gm..." But not initiate anything more than that... He go to office by 4.30pm and came back by 5am at home... He always said he got so busy...and exhausted that he didn't have a energy to call and texts... But now... He just had one text Convo..."gm..." And that's it... He sent that when he reached home..and I wake up at 11 am and saw that..and replied..he saw that by while going to office. He is not that much affectionate nowadays like completely gone...nd at first when I got upset from him..he used to come to me...and try to persuade me until my mood get good...but now...when I do this...he said okay..and go... offline... And not even sorry for that... I'm also not a typical type of person who accuse him and taut him and fight with him...for being busy and not replying on time...I was said to him... I understand you...cause I'm really... But, now not even initiating the text Convo this is I'm not understanding... Cause I give him a lot of space and never be burden on him...or pressurized him for the replies and calls ... But this ...non affectionate and not initiating part of him bothering me so much... I'm confused rn...he is not even calling me for a month now... Did he really have someone in his life...?? Should I let go of him..now??”

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Yk what i think you should go to his place Talk to him face to face Because everyone has that much time to talk for atleast half hour I don’t know of he has someone else in his life But he is not willing to talk to you , pls don’t talk to him ever Don’t degrade yourself You should be most important in your life And you are

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