“So i have this freind of mine like my best friend. And m very much like very much attached to him. And we have been having some issues since October. We have been fighting alot . So we were in no contact phase for like 2 months and then he reached out to me in mid September then we were good . But again in October we were fighting a lot. He thinks that i like to demean him or belittle him and there were a lot of conflicts . Now i came back home last week and he came to drop me. And we said bye naf it was going great for couple of days.but now 2 days back at night he called me couple of time but I didn't pick up and i told him that i was sleeping but the thing is my data was on and he called me on WhatsApp as well so he might think i was deliberately ignoring his calls and now he is not picking up my calls i have called over like 70 times and no replies to my tect. I explained him what happened but still . Now i don't know what should i do . Like i m making terms with him but i really really miss him and i m too attached to ignore that we are not talking.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Him thinking you're demeaning him has to be his problem. Sometimes we tend to think the other person is trying to hurt us even if that's not really what's happening. And if he has already had a bad perspective or opinion on you, u can't really help it yk if he grows and realises that then it's good and tbh it's not good for you to be attached to anyone in general. Attachments hurt you. A free detached bond is healthier and doesn't leave u feeling abandoned or hurt even if it ends