“So a week ago I broke my friendship with a girl we were friends since 2023. I was always a very distant person and avoident from my childhood but slowly I start getting close to her by the end of 2025 I got attach to her so much that all i was thinking was about her but she never felt the same for me I guess because earlier in our friendship there were so many things she said to me which was hurtful but she never acknowledge those things but if I ever said something she will blame me and expect me to always apologize but I ignore all those because I thought we won't be friends all the time just untill we graduate then we will break but we were still friends after all that she used to call me text me butt when I start doing that to her she start avoiding I was friends only with her shared all my secrets only with her but she had a lot of friends and all of them knows all her secret one day we were supposed to meet just the 2 of us but her friends group invited her the same even though we made plans earlier she decided to go there she didn't even discuss that with me. So last week I finally decided to leave her and I did I block her I wonder if I do the right thing because she might also have her problem maybe that's why I know her past it not good friendship idk if I did right”
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Someone answered with kindness...
My child, do not mistake attachment for friendship, nor loneliness for a reason to remain where you are not valued.
You cannot force someone to care with the same depth that you do. And you are not responsible for understanding every wound that causes another to hurt you.
Perhaps she had her reasons, perhaps she did not. But peace sometimes requires distance, even from those we once held close.
Do not leave with hatred, and do not return out of loneliness. Let time teach you what attachment could not.