“My mother family don’t talk to her since last 20 yrs
She was in depression
7 yrs ago she cheated on my father
My father is kinda manipulative and don’t like her to talk to other male ( even her brother in law )
They try to move on
She attempted suicide at that time
So I kinda protective of her
My brother and father always keeps check on her phone and always thought she still talks to someone
I always think of you can’t change a person , let her be
My brother be like “ you support her
You justified her “
But now I want to live my life
I want my own life
I don’t want to get indulge in this matter”
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Someone answered with kindness...
If your mother feels that way then let her talk to the other person than your father. Still if your relationship is really close with your mother you should atleast once talk to her about how haunted you were about her trying to suicide and make her get therapy. If you feel like not doing anything anymore, then I hope you don't regret that later. But it's alright to just leave it all if you are sick of it all just take yourself away from all of that. If your father's excessively manipulative and to a large extent then keep yourself away from him.