Someone once asked...

“I've been watching all my friends getting into relationships since middle school, and yet somehow it feels like no one's ever felt that way about me. I've been interested in many different people, over the years, but I'm afraid of trying to take the initiative because I'm worried I'll mess up the moment I try making a connection. I don't really know how to deal with this. Do I just go for it or should I take a more deliberate approach?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Focus on becoming an attractive person. Not physically, though that helps, but someone who people enjoy being around. At some point, statistically, you will find someone who will enjoy spending time with you - naked. It's a numbers game, man.

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Another soul answered...

I understand the need for you to be in relationships so soon, but there's a reality you need to know. If someone is meant for us, they'll be with us at the right time and at the right place. From someone who has been in two relationships and multiple situationships and one cheating in the span of 5 years, you'll know where I'm coming from, in my life. I have been traumatized with my past relationships. So whatever step you choose, do it wisely. If you wanna experience your dating phase, go for it but if you want to wait for the right person, then wait. You don't need to compare yourselves with any other person because their life is not within your hands and vice versa. Talk slow and be mindful of what you speak. Finally, you do you. Break a leg 🫶🏻

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Another soul answered...

Honestly, you should try even if you think that you'll get rejected. What's the worst thing that can occur? What if they say yes? Hmm? If you really are unsure try to befriend them first.

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Another soul answered...

idk u can sing a song like she is mew mew girl with a mew mew brigade

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