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“my sister... has some disabilities, physical and mental. she has trouble with a lot of things, and yet she's only ten. I don't know what her life is like, but every time I have to help my parents put her in a chair or something else, she just seems so unhappy. it feels so wrong to grab someone's leg and force them into a chair and trap them there for hours. my parents aren't bad people. they're wonderful, really. they care so much and are so kind. please, they aren't bad people. but I just really can't stand the fact that my very own sister has to live like this. I want it to be rid of my mind, but I suppose this is why im asking you all for help. I don't know how my life will go, I think im a pretty stupid person but I just imagine the life my sister has and I wonder how she even lives. she's so brave, maybe out of ignorance or maybe because she knows things I don't think she does. she's never spoken a word to me. I hope I find an answer I need.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. You are so brave and honestly deserve just as much respect as her for being so kind. Remember that you are so amazing and that your parents are trying their best. YOU ARE NOT STUPID because this question is so insightful. I am the wellbeing rep for my school and think you are so perceptive of the world. Tell your parents! It will take a load off your shoulder, and if you cant do that then tell someone else that you know you can trust. Good luck, and have a great night or day

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Another soul answered...

One can never understand what the other person is going through but to some extent I'm able to understand what she is going through. She can't even express it fo her brother because she may think of her as a burden and live in constant self doubt. Her not being able to move without any help and without depending on someone else must feel not so good because I have been through it and honestly it felt pathetic and blamed god why do I have to go through this. Just let her know she is a normal person and she is loved make her smile and let her know that depending on you is perfectly okay and good because you're family and help her to gain confidence and get her outta negative emotions. I hope everything will be fine

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