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“I have been married and living in my spouse’s country for like close to 3 years now. I developed social anxiety… as I got bullied after I came here. First by my SIL then by a neighbour and her child… so I was isolated (the reason for the bullying was ;I am a foreigner… I don’t have kids I struggle with infertility and that my husband is an amputee) I still struggle… no one speaks my language or English fluently here. I try making friends but with the language barrier it doesn’t really work. But currently if I want to stay with my spouse I have to stay here due to his Job and other official stuff. I don’t know… I wish I felt more confident and comfortable.”

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Another soul answered...

I am currently learning about language and this is so difficult to hear about. I am so sorry about this relationship. Please tell your husband how you feel, he deserves to hear it. Don’t make your life about your husband- make sure that you are a priority too. Stay positive and try to find happy things, even in tough times. Good luck!

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