Someone once asked...

“I have a best friend, For years we are bestest friends and during that time i loved her close friend but she rejected me few times. Then i realised myself its good that she didn’t accepted me because i realised like she is not the type i want. Then after a year her friend came to me and proposed me but i rejected because i don’t have any love for after all the things she did. Then after few months i realised myself that i love my best friend more than anyone so i just told her but she said she wants me as her best friend but not as a boyfriend. And also she said you are the one who proposed my friend close friend first and she still wants you back, i don’t want be with you in her place. Then i lost the bestest friend and the love. Fucked up everything”

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Someone answered with kindness...

you say you fucked everything up, but what exactly do you want now? do you want your best friend back, or do you still want her to see you as something more? those are two different objectives, and how you approach this depends entirely on which one matters more to you.

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