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“I get emotionally attached to people, especially when they’ve made me feel valued and special initially. But when their behaviour changes, they become inconsistent or make me question their intentions, I start overthinking everything. I struggle with uncertainty, feeling replaced, being taken for granted and wondering what I did wrong. Even when someone’s actions hurt me, I find it difficult to detach because I miss the connection and the good memories. I constantly struggle between confronting people, maintaining my self-respect and fearing that I’ll lose them completely. I think the uncertainty affects me more than I would like to admit.”

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u and i are same

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