“I feel like my parents and the parensts of my girlgfirend, althoguh wants us to marry but then keep asling/probing/nudging us via thoughts and questions so as to discourage us fron marrying”
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Someone answered with kindness...
maybe they are just afraid and trying to make sure you both are sure
maybe they just don't understand
the real question i think tho doesn't lie in this : do you want to marry her ? does she want to marry you ? Is it something that will make both of you happy ? I'm not sure the rest really matters (although i get how it can be stressing)
this is your life, you know what's good for you
take the advice and concern of people close to you, but don't let them prevent you from doing what feels right
i hope you can figure this out soon
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Another soul answered...
Be gay
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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
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Another soul answered...
they could be advising from personal experience this day and age it isnt seen as that big of a deal but if you and your girlfriend are wanting to marry and can see it being an everlasting relationship that results in a very happy family then you should do what you guys want to do just be confident that you both want this forever
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Another soul answered...
bro, seek out for professional help. ask psychologist or ask your parents for advice