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“I am in a situation my family is emotionally abusive and my brother is a complete narcissist. He is been threatening me that he will ruin my life and my parents are not doing anything about it. He told my parents about my personal life by stopping into my phone. He is around 28 and I am around 26. I wor in bangalore and because of this my parents are refusing to send me back. I accepted my behaviours and said I want to leave this place and begged them to get me married to someone but no. My brother wouldn't want to live a life since his marriage ended in divorce. What do I do?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Run away at this point dude, you are an adult, you are earning, find a girl,.move away from them and settle in life, if it gets to serious, file a restraining order and fir with the police

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Another soul answered...

If you are financially stable and can get alone a house, leave. Even if its a little house or big, if you want to leave that place , leave. Its your decision, parents can control you, you have rights and they are violating them. I do not want you to do some revenge, but if you want, you can, but it needs to be legal. Im going to tell you that you and your brother are humans he is just like you, and he is controlling you? That is not the right attitude and some people are unfortunate to end in this type of family, i wish you for the best.

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Contact local authority

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