Someone once asked...

“How to unlove the person you love the most.....? I met a guy online and I loved him alot...and he matters to me...his life,his going and his talk... everything part of him... He had a very good chemistry lovey dovey, understanding....caring everything...for like 7 months... But now he got his job..and he didn't that much affectionate and loving...he can't even out efforts to have a convo....like completely a opposite person... And now I feel like...we can't get back to that relationship that we had before.... I just don't know what to do...cause I love him....alot...and missed him...too ...cause he is sooo gooood... But ....idk what should I do...?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Nah ur prob like mid 20s of a teen get a life if u stop acting like his life is on the line then u will notice IT AINT THAT DEEP AND U PUT WAY TO MANY DOTS!!!

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Another soul answered...

heyyy Soo see if he’s got busy busy like actually …i mean it happens but girll always remember “if he wanted to he would” .. For now what i would suggest is to have a good talk w him …veryy basic but yea com is the key then observe how he’s taking things NOW if its still the same …then u have your answer (Or maybe u should try giving him the taste of his own medicine)

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