Someone once asked...

“How to unlove the person you love the most...? Cause he is losing interest in me...even though I give him everything... Understanding,love,care, affection... Everything...but idk...why he becomes so distant w me... I missed his old version...where he shower me w lots of affection... I just can't...stop myself from missing him..”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Well stranger, Idk much about relationships but one things i do know is about my experience with a close friend, i considered him my elder brother i loved him as a brother and we were the bestfriend for 10 years, one day he stopped reaching out so i took the effort to leave him a msg everyday some day he would reply some days he won't, eventually i got frustated didn't talk to him for 3 months he didn't reach out. I bit the bullet and left him a long text about why he wasn't texting me straight forwards, his words were I'll try to reach out life is so busy and i don't have the time, i have changed a lot. Suddenly 10 years of friendship broke in front of my eyes and he didn't really reach out as much as he promised i tried but it was like he didn't want to. Eventually i stopped and this layer of greif kept with me for months snd one day it didn't bother me. From what i can tell from yoru story you love this guy so much just ask him straightforward if you have an answer that satisfies you mayeb guve him the benefit of doubt that maybe his life is also tough at this moment i gave my bestfriend more than a year. If the answer is unsatisfactory but grief will pile up with layers and layers of other stuuf eventually one day you will wake up and you will not remember it. It might hurt but as they say to love someone you have to let them go. Sometimes its good to let go if they already have. I wish you well for your future.

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