Someone once asked...

“whom should i choose? the person who is dying to get me or someone i love. but the thing is the person i love i have been into a relationship with him and he cheated on me 3 times and idk bro. whenever i see him i still feel that i love him.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

He cheated on you and you feel like you love him, that's just lack of self respect towards yourself, you need to work on that and your problem will be solve. Always remember, respect is greater than love. Love is sometimes reckless but respect is something that will not put you down.

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Another soul answered...

It is that you love him but does he love you back? The way you have described him, it's strongly no. He does not. I don't know who is dying to get you but you might think of giving him a chance because he might be the one. That's just my opinion. Think about it.

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Another soul answered...

Do not choose someone who cheated on you girl....even one time is not acceptable and it's thrice here. He can never love you if he's a cheater. And this love you're feeling for him....remind yourself how disgusting cheating actually is. It'll fade ..maybe it'll not but you do not compromise your self respect for love for a guy who can't even keep his desires in check. And about the person who loves you.....i suggest that you should not get into a relationship with him...cuz you don't love him and it's not fair for him and you also needs tine to figure out. And first love yourself then you'll realise how much injustice you're doing to yourself by loving a cheater.

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