“Well, this is something that I've only talked about with eco got.. So I have a bsf and she's literally the bestest person ever.. But you see there are so many ups nd downs in one's life.. So she has had a hard year too.. Basically she had a male bsf.. Now he had been toxic since the beginning but atp she was really young and he was about five yrs older than her so they chatted.. They began as gud frnds.. I wouldn't have ever questioned his intentions but the situation now forces me to because when I look at everything that has happened to her related with him it's always pointing out to him being an absolute cunning man only wanting attention, flirty texts and smbody who would listen to all the damn shi he has without commitment.. Now the reason why I question and hate him is because he had ghosted her last yr saying you will find smone better and pretended that he cares so much about her and is leaving so that she can be at peace.. After that in jan he comes back this year and says let's be frnds again and they have sm chats.. Then they try a new beginning my bsf had actlly caught feelings for him as any person would because she was very young and he was yk breadcrumbing kind of.. She hadn't ever dated so yk it was a new thing for her and she had feelings for him but this yr it was all about frndship bw the two.. So she thought she gets her male bsf back but guess wht? He can't even let her breathe in peace.. Both hv busy schedules but when she returns home watches reels or literally for once just posts a story without replying him(EVEN THO HE DOES IT ALL TIMES) he starts a damn war and throws the entire blame at her that you r wrong you r wrong and makes her doubt herself so bad.. Just a few days before she realised how big of a red flag he actlly is and stopped msging but didn't block him.. She's not completely let gone him.. She's still thinking was I wrong? Was ego all that mattered? Will he wish me on my bday.. One day she even said I lost everything not like in a depressed expression but yk joking bout ur prblms kind of coping mechanism.. So she was doing that and idk how to react.. But now that I've actlly realises the level of gasliggting and manipulation he did to her idk how exactly to put it out to her TBH I'M SURE SHE KNOWS MOST OF IT BUT ACCEPTING IS THE HARD PART I REALLY WANNA TELL HER TO LITERALLY BLOCK HIM CUZ SHE'S GONNA HOLD ONTO THOSE CHATS ND WHATSOEVER AND LIKE MY THING IS IDK HOW TO HELP HER”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I Dont know if it will help but if i was her. I would want someone to tell me the situation as it is. It may take some time for her to realize it ,but as a friend you should tell her and then it is upto her as how to handle the situation .
Just be with her through it all.