“I have a friend who is genuinely nice to me in certain ways. She trusts me with all her secrets and considers me someone who understands her. However, sometimes I feel like she doesn't value me as much as she values other people. For example, whenever I post an Instagram story, she barely interacts with it, but when others post, she likes and comments on almost everything. I know it might sound trivial, but it makes me feel overlooked. She also makes fun of me about a boy I like, especially because he likes her, and although she claims it's all in good fun, her jokes sometimes genuinely hurt me. I also feel like she subtly pulls me down at times. Recently, my best friend and I started talking again after a period of not communicating, and this friend was also talking to him. Since their conversation was about me, I requested her to share their chats with me. I asked repeatedly, but she left me on seen and continued sending me reels as if nothing had happened. What confuses me is that she's often understanding, helps me financially sometimes, and shares almost everything with me, yet I still feel an uncomfortable energy in this friendship. I can't tell whether I'm overthinking, whether she's pretending to value me, or whether there's something about our friendship that I'm not seeing. I just feel like she prioritises other people over me, while keeping me around as someone she can trust and rely on.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Once I have a kind of friendship like this after almost 2 years I got courage to finish it ..... So in my opinion u shouldn't be in a friendship where u feel left or unseen or be someone who will be available when other needs. I give you advice that talk to her once about her behavior if she changes it good otherwise I guess slowly start to distance urself before it starts to mentally disturb you.
I hope u find a good friend ❤️