“well so me and my bf are in real tough spot rn i mean im on the tough spot tbh cause its been 2 yrs to our relationship and yeah we had our diff and fights we alwsy were tgt and all of sudden he told me h dont want a relationship he wants to focus on himself and for taht i talked with him ki he can focus and grow by staying tgt i dont understand the idea of being separated but then he is like i do love u i love the clingyness the love,care and wtv we have but u wont understand i dont want any romantic relationship we can be frds .and for me its hard cause we are like in same university same class and seeing him daily and knowing he is not mine anymore will hurt me and i feel that our reln was not that week ki it will break like that and im confused cause the first time we talked abt this he said he wanted to focus on career and himself and then now when we talked he was like i wanna enjoy the freedom i dont want responsiblities give me 2 yrs let me be smtg focus on career and earn much . this felt okh but yk he is not even sure that he will come back to me like he said u have to trust enough uk me i wont go for another reln but then the question is wont he think that she is living her life im living no need to go back and everything feels confusing to me”
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Someone answered with kindness...
honestly, i don't think anyone can stay just "friends" in this kinda situation. you must have so much shared history that it might be impossible to be "just friends" (at least what i feel from your side). secondly, even he's uncertain about his comeback. do you think you can put your life on hold and wait for him for 2 years, knowing that his comeback is uncertain? 2 years is a lot of time and anything can happen in these 2 years, and the worst part is no one knows what will happen in the future. you have to live your life. the decision is upto you tho. i wish you a lot of strength and courage. i hope everything works out for you <3