I feel like I'm dying. How do I make him understand that I love him? (We're not dating and I haven't even confessed properly yet). I yearn for him alot. To the point where i feel like ripping my heart out. He's not ready for any type of commitment. Few days back, when he was being forced into getting engaged to someone by his mother I still remember how scared I got. Thank God, it's ended now. But still idk what to do. He has past trauma's, his ex ran away after 6 years of relationship and so much more. Idk what to do, how to make him understand that I love him and that I'm never going to leave him. Never. I'm here and will always be. I love him a lot and idk how to make him understand that.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I think he knows that you love him its just his past traumas have taken up a big space in his head. Girl do you think would he choose you just like you choose him? Think it up would you want to marry someone who makes you happy or someone who makes you cry because he cant deal with his problems, i am nit particularly pointing out that he might be a bad person actually he can be the sweetest person i the world but he just doesn’t know how to fight his own demons. So in my opinion you really should give him time and space and be in his goods and bads supporting him without making your presence completely visible because no matter what you cant fight his demons for him because you cant see them the way he does right? So if you really think hes the one for you go for it and give it your all but if he doesn’t understand and value your worth that guy, no matter how handsome or smart, is not absolutely not worth your time and you will have to eventually leave him because do you want to spend the most beautiful years of your life chasing after someone who you know wouldn’t end up with you or make a new story with characters that truly value you.
So dear stranger, i really hope you'll understand my piece and give it a good thought because even if i am a stranger i feel your pain and what it feels like to not be chosen.
I wish you all the best and a really good and beautiful life ahead!❤️