Someone once asked...

“There's this longing loneliness (if that makes sense), the feeling of wanting to be someone's no 1. The feeling of wanting a happy family. The feeling of just......happiness. I want to love someone, care for someone, want someone, yearn someone, but, it never feels like its gonna happen. The kind of love where I cover her with a blanket in winter, sit in the balcony and sipping on hot coffee with her in the monsoon, returning home to her beautiful smile, sleeping beside her and our kids, knowing my entire world is sleeping in my arms. Now my issue is, how do I get rid of this feeling?? I don't wanna be disappointed in any kind of relationship again, let it be romantic, with my parents, or even my friends.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

This is exactly me but as lesbian who craves this with my girl that I cant reach but okay you will find someone to do this exactly and smile to yourself think wow it was this easy! And even if u dont, there will be something else that life will show you that will make you feel even better all that will come to you!!!

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Another soul answered...

Sorry I accidentally clicked on sending the answer before completing it. And as much as I hate it writing down what you are feeling and reading it through an analytical lens will help you understand why you are feeling what uou are feeling. I know it's cliche but it will find you when it's time. You just need to be patient. Both with yourself and the universe's timings. Because when you starting paying attention and working on yourself things start happening to you. Not that this is me saying you to be a narcissist and self obsessed or anything but- im sorry idk what im trying to but I hope you..are sort of understanding what im trying to say..., and btw be kind. Even to yourself

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Another soul answered...

It is not a crime for you to yearn for all these things. You are just looking for a way to stop expecting from people so nothing can hurt you. Try investing time in yourself than spend expecting from people

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