“there's this guy i had been crushing on at my uni and I always thought it was one sided but it wasn't. we started talking and within a week we s3xt3d. the problem is despite being so intimate with me in dms he acted like im a stranger at uni. he would say he has "social anxiety" long story short, he would only talk to me properly whenever we sexted and would ghost me otherwise and wen I brought that up to him he said I made him feel like a prostitute( hello what?? hes the only who intimidated 8 out of 10 times) and blocked me over summer vacations. then once uni started again he unblocked me and messaged "um hey" and the most apology he gave me was an im sorry that too with a funky sticker. and as expected he initiated s3xt1ng again and acts like im a nobody at uni. I know I should leave i should stop putting up with his shit but I cant help but be insanely attracted to him physically whenever I see him at uni. he's the epitome of my type but its hurting me, he's so hurtful and he just doesnt care. hes introvert-ish keeps to himself and his friends so I think that oh I can be smn he can confide into and all that yk saviour complex women have but its so unfair to me. even as im typing this I realise how stupid I sound I KNOW he is not good for me but j because he is attractive I am willing to put up with him in hopes he would change and I had always been the strict friend never got involved with boys. the first time I do and this is how I end up I feel embarrassed”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Heyy it's okayy
Don't feel embarrassed
Everyone goes through something like this
But if you genuinely want some Advice, cut him off
No matter how hard it is
Please cut him off
It will be really hard at first but it will be okay after some time
And trust me this is coming from a boy
You deserve to be loved not something like this
And that will happen when you give it space to exist
And things that are hurting you is the hope that things will get better between you two
But I don't think he is gonna change
And even if he does, you won't feel safe around him(emotionally)
Take as much time as you want but get out of it
Don't worryy
Everything will be okayy on its own
Okayyy!?
Take caree