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“There is setting of three friends so in one setting friend 1,2,3 went to a party in which friend 2 already mentioned to friend 1 that if I insist on drinking too much and doing bullshit please stop me at any cost don't let me do any shit And on other hand friend 3 mention that let her do anything she wants to do, don't stop her on her way of hinder (we friend 1 already had a fight with friend 3 on the topic of drinking and smoking and every thing like that and then stopped saying anything on that topic all together) Then all three of these friends go to that party, friend 2 and 3 fuck things up, friend 1 try to stop in the beginning (only trying to stop friend 2 but she didn't listen) then things gets messed up and friend 1 have to take care of all the mess and listening to the yapping, cleaning the vomit putting them to sleep, helping them sober up in the morning but when they get sober all they say is how friend 1 is wrong, why she tries to stop, she is this she is that everything without thinking that this might hurt the feelings of friend 1. In this situation what should be the reaction of friend 1 POV: Friend 1 is kindda hurt by her friends but she don't want to confront What should friend 1 do? Btw friend 1&2 don't remember much about all the messas they blanked out”

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It's natural that friend 1 is hurt by their reactions, if friend 1 doesn't want to confront them maybe letting them know casually can help like " hey you know I only tried to stop you cause you do this or that, I just want to enjoy a nice time with you two..." they may get defensive but friend 1 also has their boundary to maintain.

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