“ok so, im a girl ,i know this might sound missed a but so the girl I know from two years and we were friends, we had faced dating allegations several times but it wasn't anything serious. until one event we did together, after which she asked me out on a date and she knew I would never want to row and a friendship and social started with if it doesn't work out will be good friends because you know that we cannot go more than 2 days without each other which is true and so then we will like okay let's discuss this further over a date that day did not happen till date but during the whole period there will many guys for try to approach me but then I told them that I have a girlfriend to you know shut them away one of which was in front of a mutual friend of ours and so basically at that point it was kind of like that I am officially saying that we are already dating while we werent I'm so recently a guy that I new from one year got all flirty with me and was like I used to like you before but you never really show the interest so I back down and then I went to his home and we had a make out session all while me and her were not ina. committed relationship, but due to many reasons it felt like it was committed, I told her the same day we made out and of course she started talking to me less and the next day was my birthday and she just came and I cut the cake and she left which made it pretty obvious that she was mad at me I don't know what to do should I defend myself like am I right or did I do wrong there is more to this lore”