Someone once asked...

“So there's this guy. We met at ice skating and actually everyone asked if we knew each other from before cuz chemistry. And well after that we met once after talking for sometime and he did all that stuff that just a friend wont do - but afew days later he asked if this was a situationship or something cus he was already talking to someone and didn't wanna lead me on. But ugh I'm in love with that guy now ugh and idk what to do I told him that I started talking to a guy (I lied - I'm not talking to anyone) but em so cooked bro idk what to do.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

taking that act of kindness(the way he behaved with you) is wrong and he is already loving someone and made it clear to not lead you on so if you try to make a move you will look like some kinda annoying pick me to others and if he really that nice find someone like him 🥹

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