“So the thing is I am with a relationship for 2yrs in those years I felt so much love from this guy but in previous year I found out that when we started talking there was still a girl , she messaged me . After learning i also learnt that they haven't meet irl just on the messages or video calls . Though it was hard to believe and accept I did accepted him . ( Note : he wanted to end things there saying he is wrong and I shouldn't be with him , ik he was not manipulating) Then we started again slowly but there was always a part of me who was curious about how he was to her . The girl sent my friend the screenshots she had and sometimes by seeking I read some of them . It sinks my heart and I want to tell him how bad he was to me too for doing this . We mutually decided to burry this thing but I still get curious , what should I do ?
(P. s . Giving him a second chance was though but I did and now I don't regret it but that curiousity will sure drown me someday)”
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Try to communicate this with him again. Even though you both decide to bury this down, you can't. Because you're hurt and insecure. You have to talk it out with him and share your hurt and insecurities. See if he comforts you and gives you reassurance and a reason to put this all behind and continue this relationship or if he's just ready to break up than face the consequences of his mistakes . Girl if he really wants you he'll give u tins of reassurances and try to make this up to you instead of breaking up. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY L. No use in keeping this to yourself.