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“So, I'm 19 year old and having a worst phase of my life which I was the one who generally created it by myself. So being in the upcoming cages of further life difficulties. I am not able to find myself , lacking in decision making regretting after doing stuff after watching adult video (I know I dont want that still I do), and to my worst effect I see myself down to earth now I see myself in no competition, if theres ranking from 1 to billion I stand on on ,999,999,999 I just feel everyone is the settled and I lost all my parents money In just one word tomorrow, that never came. I wanted to restart but all I have is panic ,anxiety and death thoughts.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Hey first of all close your eyes take a deep breath and then relax for a while. Now, listen to me bro I'm not saying I'm very mature or I have very much experience but I know one thing for sure you'll get over this phase too, it's just a phase when it will pass you'll think Oh I was worrying over such a small thing because life is really so big apart from all this. And you know what feeling this way is completely normal but not doing anything to change the things that are bothering you that is not normal and not good for you. So, just work hard so that you could be financially independent and for working hard first you need to build discipline. Give yourself one week for building discipline and just for one week avoid doing your bad habits and after one week you'll find yourself not urging anymore to do that anymore. And after that learn a skill or maybe study or whatever that's your passion because hardwork never gets wasted so work on yourself. Also take care of your health because health is everything. As long as you're healthy you're able to do everything in the best way. So yeah take care dude.

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Another soul answered...

Okay so this might not work for everyone, but just know YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Just listen to "Making the Bed" by Olivia Rodrigo (she was the same age as you when she wrote it, meaning she went through something similar to what you are going through now). You're only 19, you have a long life to go still. So you haven't figured things out? Some people you're age are still immature and goofing around. You're actually TRYING. That's all I have to say.

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