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“So i have mental health problems ... Amd my ex returned... On the very day my psychologist made me understood that umm that we could never be together since he married... See ik things r complicated... But yk why he returned? Cuz i blocked my another friend in anger bc of him some time ago and that friend confessed his feelings for me to him ... I had decided yo not date ... But my ex was also my best friend... And he told me that this new guy is good amd i have made sure to test him ... Why not just conversate ... Like bc of me dont let go of the chance to find what u want ... But like i mssged this friend who confessed ... And he agreed to every single damn condition of mine telling me how much he loves me ... Should i date ? But like umm i mssged him last night and he hadnt replied its been 12 hours ... And i am in anxiety Is dating again a good option”

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Someone answered with kindness...

mabey wait for few days like 2 weeks or something and then do what you truly feel about him

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