“So hey , umm okay after a long time k was in a relationship with a guy , I dunno what he does as he told me he's a student same as me , which he's okay , after talking for asking time i got to know actually he told me he's a singer as well , like yea ,, THE REAL ONE, AND then actually I liked him already DEFINITELY NOT BCZ HE TOLD ME HE'S A SINGER, he wrote s song for me and told me , he wrote that , after meeting me and the song is little bit inspired by me , so i was little... No I was so happy, and he told me about that song thing after we got onto a relationship, we talked, on text on call on FaceTime, everything, i loved the guy , then on a random night , he asked for my instagram i said no like I'm not giving you with like teasing him a Lil bit , I was gonna give him if he asked me lil more i just wanna tease him , then he said good night, next day not even next day I texted him sake night at 2 am or something, he saw the text and haven't replied then after 1 day I texted him again, then again he just left me on seen , Then last day I texted him "YKW BYE" AND HE JUST LIKED THE TEXT, HES UPLOADING STORIES , AND his reels and all but not texting me , damn man what should I do”

Another soul answered...

Girl, first of all, stop texting him. You've already made enough attempts to communicate, and I think that's enough. You don't have to keep knocking on someone's door when they clearly know you're waiting outside. And honestly, I don't think the Instagram thing was the problem. If a little teasing was enough to make him lose interest or stop communicating, then there was probably something else going on. Look, I understand you liked him, and the whole song thing must've made you feel special. Especially knowing that someone wrote something inspired by meeting you. But don't let the beautiful beginning make you ignore how he's treating you now. You deserve consistency, not someone who makes you feel wanted one day and invisible the next. Maybe he has his reasons, maybe he doesn't. But whatever those reasons are, he could've communicated instead of leaving you guessing. Don't chase an explanation from someone who's comfortable leaving you with questions. Let him be. If he genuinely wants to talk, he knows where to find you. And please, don't blame yourself for being a little playful or for getting attached. You were just being genuine. There's nothing embarrassing about that. Just know when to stop giving your energy where it's not being reciprocated.

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Hi stranger, first of all thank you for opening up, it takes strength to open up. Regarding your situation, i think the guy was not genuinely interested in you and even the song, either it was not originally written for you or used some AI to make it, it is also possible that he has a massive ego and couldn’t take no even as a joke (he might have thought ki he did soo much for you like writing that song maybe and your ‘no’ was the trigger point). Either ways, i am not trying to pin point possibilities of his wrongs to make you feel better. I think you should block this guy and delete every evidence of him, ik it sounds lame, but it works. I know my advice was not of much use but you will get through it. Stay strong out there.