“So, I have two friends one whom I'm friends with from last 7-8 years lets call her A and other one whom I am friends with from last 3 years lets call her B. My father is a heart pateint and he recently got second heart stroke and atp I was totally devasted. My frnd(B) was there for me.. and he kind helped me a lot. The other frnd(B), actually she's also going through a lot so I usually don't disturb her. She's kinda patient. Now, my mother got paralysis on her face, and I lost my job. I've to do all house chores and also I've no job so I am totally not feeling well.. i wanna vent out, but I've none. The girl(B) she has been kinda ignoring me, she got a different job and living in different city. She's not even calling me, and left me on seen. The girl(A) I am afraid to tell anything to her, as her medical condition isn't good. I don't wanna give her much stress. I've not shard this paralysis thing to anyone, and I really wanna talk.. but Idk how to tell someone.. as they might think that I need some sympathy and all.. I used to very comfortable with girl(B) but now she's ignoring me so I'm hesitating to call her.
Please tell me what to do? I even asked her for final closure but she just left me on seen. I can't bear to loose her”
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Someone answered with kindness...
It's not worth it. Just let it fade. Someone you have to force to stay with you and doesn't willingly listen and ignores you is just not a good friend. You can make new ones or find new ways but never force yourself to make something work when it clearly is one sided.