Right now Im going through a lot. I cant focus on my studies and I like a guy who I don’t think is in love with me. tell me ways to move on and actually study with full focus, (i cant cut him off from my life because we are in same College and we see each other everyday)

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Eoow, that sounds like a pretty rough situation. I think the best thing you can do is try to make peace with it. Either by talking to the dude and at least getting some certainty, or by waiting for time to sort things out.

Option 1 is obviously a lot more stressful, but even if he's not into you, your brain can adjust to that certainty surprisingly quickly and start focusing on other things again.

Or just do what I did: have a crush on the same person for three years without ever bringing it up, until they eventually moved away and my brain had no choice but to deal with it. :D

“Right now Im going through a lot. I cant focus on my studies and I like a guy who I don’t think is in love with me. tell me ways to move on and actually study with full focus, (i cant cut him off from my life because we are in same College and we see each other everyday)”