“One of my classmate with whom I was in a situationship last year and then he ghosted me and again he came back after 4-5 months , now he has a girlfriend, and he adds story in close friend of her girlfriend, she is beautiful though
He told me he is never gonna move on , he is obsessed with me , he loves me
In the process of knowing him ,I fell for him 🥀
And then he ghosted me ,... Like WTF !!
I texted him 2 days back and asked him whatever he said in past was true or just for fun ?
He said he wasn't lying, life moves on and he moved on too
Idk whyy the hell he came back
I wanted a closure, but now I'm more invested in my questions now
Tell what should I do”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Do not chase the person who chose to leave. Do not compete with the person who came after you.
He was part of your journey, not necessarily your destination.
You cannot control who stays, who leaves, or who changes their mind. You can only control how long you allow their absence to disturb your peace.
You asked for closure. Now give yourself permission to stop asking.
Let go. Not because you stopped caring, but because you must start caring for yourself.
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Another soul answered...
He seems like an asshole. Trust me, no one who truly loves you can be so quick to ghost you and move on. Don’t let his inability to treat you with kindness affect the way you treat yourself. You deserve love and respect.