“Please tell me if I'm overthinking or not.
So there's a guy I talk to. We always chat and talk about random things, sometimes share deep stuffs. But we're from different states. So our language is different, though we talked in English. I kinda liked him. So today while chatting after the topic of language came, he suddenly said that he knows a little bit of my language. I was surprised cause I didn't know that. Then he texted 'I love you' in my language. Seeing that I was kinda happy and blushing. Then I see his next text that came and it said 'Don't mean it'. And my bubble burst. But I've been thinking what if he really meant it but didn't have the courage so just downplayed it (Cause I also do this sometimes) or he really didn't mean it so just clarified that so I don't misunderstand. 😭😭 I don't know what to make of this. Can anyone give 3rd person opinion?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hmmmm maybe take it as a sign ask him directly if he meant it if you can. Ask him when you said I love you did you actually mean it or If I had said the same thing would that make things different between us? Good luck to youuu take careee
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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
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Another soul answered...
The guy definitely likes you , he was scared at the moment so he just put a shield by saying that he didn’t mean it, if u like know him, if he is a playboy kind of person or something then maybe it doesn’t mean anything otherwise mah guy is just scared to confess, and once he did he immediately pulled up his shield. So I think u should really go ahead and if u are confident about him, then maybe u should take next initiative!?