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“ok, so me and my bf, (it'll be a year we're together and we know each other since school now we're in college, and we were good friends too before we got into rlp but before that, we had few months of rlp in school but broke up cause of studies and all, ) so last year, in summer 2025, we were talking he knew i loved him and he did have feelings for me too but he wasnt ready for a rlp that time, so the thing is that time he was obsessed over an actress, he isnt anymore, and then we had 3 fights cause of him liking a 20yo actress, my point was only this that why he has to like her if he's commited to me he got my point and its all sorted now, its not that i am that much insecure, and i know finding someone attractive doesnt mean being attracted to them, but a mature person knows obsessing over a celebrity or having crush on them while being in rlp is bullsh*t, and so my problem for now is he follows only 2 actresses right now, and i dont like that idk why its cause of the old stuff, but i know its not in my control that he never encounters any actors or else, so how do i not feel bad about that, me and him we have talked about the thought i shared before, how i think about crushing over an celebrity means in rlp and he agreed, and so i guess i should just trust him more, (he really does love me, its the old wounds giving me this feeling,), do i need to talk about it to him?, please whoever replies make it longer that can help, thank you,”

Update · 2026-11-05

guys we do love each other, and we're gonna get married and all, he isnt the type of men who'd cheat, and i love him only, so leaving is not an option, i just asked how can i handle this situation, and dont other men follow so many actresses while being in a rlp too?, following them on insta doesnt mean he liked them, he may respect their work, and it somehow makes me feel bad, and we have talked about that, so tell me anything else i can do, i'd try that when we'll meet,

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just follow male actors and tell your bf that they look so hot nd all , he will get jealous and will get to feel what you have feeled. I'm sure he will get on track. ( personally tried ) and and and if he's liking someone else in whatever way then its a sign that he'll leave you for the better. BE ALERT!!!!!!!!!!

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If im being honest id leave him, i doubt hed ever stop liking/thinking of these actresses and most likey looking at other women on social medias, you deserve a partner who dosent actively do things that trigger your insecurities. i know its easy for a person who dosent know you to say this but think of yourself as a person not his partner, would you treat yourself this way? It bothers you, set boundaries, if he cant respect them then leave and trust me stranger you can and will find better. focus on yourself and prioritize than, the rest will fall into place. best of luck.

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