My parents are looking for a partner for my wedding. But they want me to lose weight. I am a masters student, i have a werkstudent job and I find it really difficult to take time, I get tired really easily. I would also maybe find some time for the exercise but the motivation for that is wrong. I feel I am ugly the way I am, incapable of finding someone to love me. I feel very insecure and this might be why I keep avoiding the exercise. I really wanna get out of this situation

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

You shouldn't hate yourself for what you are. Embrace it, if you want to go to the gym and exercise and loss weight, it is your choice. Never ever lose self confidence. Never stop believing on yourself no matter how many times you fail. Losing faith in yourself will not help. One day is better than no day. "If love was to be found on the basis of looks" today we won't have the population of 8 billion. A person falls in love with another person because of who they are and not mainly because of how they look. If a person falls in love with someone else just based on their looks, its basically a crush. At the end of the day, don't let people ruin your self respect and self confidence.