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“My girlfriend broke up with me just because I don’t have a stable job, I did my masters and actively looking for a full time job while doing part time on the side. Is it a crime for not having a job these days and am I the wrong person or is the girl right for showing her preferences after 3 year being together. ? Please help me understand this and I don’t know who is right in this situation me or the girl. But the whole point is, how is this fair ?”

Update · 2026-11-05

I need an opinion about this from the girls put here. What happened to me is it fair ? When a girl is asking for stability and while I am doing part time and can provide that stability, but it doesn’t matter unless you have a full time “stable” job. The girl was like get a stable job and then come talk to me, if not don’t bother talking to me anymore. She has been waiting for 3 years and she doesn’t want to wait anymore, while I don’t want to loose her and want to continue being with her. So what should I do now ? Help me out ladies

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Someone answered with kindness...

If the relationship didn't stand just because you where searching for a job, then maybe it's better that it didn't last...keep in mind that the pearson you are leaving with will be present in every moment of your life, when you'll be good and when you'll be bad. you better be with someone supportive no matter what can happen for you. I know finding a job can be hard and it's on of thoses times that, if you are single, is a good moment to work on yourself, focuse on the career. There is no right or bad people in this story, maybe some people need more time to grow, maybe some people need to get with the good person, somemay never find the one, but never stop searching or developping a relationship until you can fully be yourself and you'll know that you can trust you significant other in every moment of your life, and that you'll be present for there's, Sorry i may have made ome mistake, english is not my first language, Sincerly, hope you the est and hope you'll find what you are searching for, in love and in life.

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Another soul answered...

See...as a girl...I think she's finding stability but at the same time I think it's unfair because if she's with you for 3 years she should accept however you are..and most of it...at least you're trying...but as I don't know her side of story I can't judge anything...I just want you to know that the person who actually loves you would accept you in any way but that doesn't mean that you should stop...just give it some time...maybe she'll return or maybe someone better will come...I know it's hard but trust me TIME HEALS YOU... It can be...by making you stronger or by giving you things that you want... And in the last have a great day!! Trust God.🍀A charm for you🍀

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