“My father is having an affair for more than a decade now and my mom doesnt know about this. recently i got to know that this woman is into physical relationship with many other men and shares photos of them together to my father. I am totally disgusted and helpless right now. i cannot tell my mom because she is a very sensitive woman and such information would destroy her completely. We even have a house under construction for which the loan is paid by my mom. i fear what if something bad happen. i feel that my dad is completely a liar and i cannot trust a single action he does. he is not a bad person and he has done so much for us but seeing this makes me question every other action of his”

Another soul answered...

i think, somewhere in all of this, your mother's feelings deserve to be considered just as much as yours. i can understand why you're afraid of hurting her, especially when you know how much she has invested in your family and the life you're building together. but please remember that she deserves honesty, respect and the chance to make her own decisions about her life, too. she isn't just someone who needs to be protected from the truth; she's a person with her own strength, dignity and right to know what concerns her marriage. i also don't think you need to rush into confronting anyone or carrying the responsibility of deciding what happens next. take some time, make sure you understand what you've discovered, and perhaps find someone trustworthy who can help you navigate this carefully. you don't have to turn this into a battle between your parents, either. and please, don't lose yourself trying to keep everyone else okay. whatever happens, i hope your mother gets the love, consideration and honesty she deserves, and i hope you find some peace in knowing that this was never yours to fix.

Another soul answered...

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