Someone once asked...

“I'm having romantic obsessions”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Fall in love with yourself… not in a romantic way… put all the love developing yourself caring for yourself . When you start loving and taking care of yourself… then when you get a romantic partner you will not be obsessed in a negative manner but love in a healthy manner where you don’t lose yourself! Too many of use lose ourselves loving someone obsessively. Love others but don’t forget yourself!

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am i the problem? i feel like everything i do is wrong, everything. i'm always annoyed with everyone, i'm getting mad do easily, lately. i feel unwanted. am i being too insecure?Basically i was in a friends w benefits w this guy (we lived in a same building..basically my childhood frnd) …it lasted almost a yr …it was almost like a relationship but without a tag …then he shifted to another city for his studies and thats it we just stopped talking ….honestly saying he kinda cut me off ….but over the year i loved him soo almost after the a yr of no contact and i called and texted him that ‘i love u’ …he just said okay soo i understood Now almost 5yrs later we’re now 21yrs old …we starter meeting again because of one of my closest frnd ( a guy) …we lit some cig ..had fun Then we went on trip and i hot drunk and i made out with him ..now the other day my guy frnd started Blaming me that how I’ve not moved on how i was throwing myself at him and what not …and these two guys are bestfriends too …they kinda started avoiding me …..also i explained my guy frnd that i have moved on but ‘its just i haven’t touched anyone since 5yrs so my body is comfortable w him only thats why it happened in a flow flow state’ …then he goes and said ‘ oh..so even i can take u out for a night’ …like wtffff am i ?! A prostitute?! … Im a kind of person who prioritise frndship over my self respect …i get it im wrong But idk what should i dooohow do you un eat a rat?