“I'm a 19 year old girl I was a bright student in my school years but after 10th my dad and relatives told me to pursue diploma and I got a government diploma college in another city it was hard for me cuz mai kabhi apne parents ke bina nahi rahi aur waha 3 saal rehna tha so I thought ki I will handle it and study hard but jab mai waha gayi 2 mahine I couldn't understand a thing mujhe classes kaha hai yeh bhi nahi pata tha and mere friends bhi nahi the koi jaise taise 1st sem nikala maine but meri back aa gayi usmei bhi so I told my parents and I don't wanna continue this anymore but they said ki log kya kahenge tu kar legi hame pata hai but 3 saal ho gaye lekin aesa ek bhi sem nahi tha jismei meri back na aayi ho aur mera extend bhi ho gaya but maine apne parents ko nahi bataya bass last sem ka result bataya ki I've passed the semester but unhone kaha ki tera result achha aya hai toh tujhe government engineering college mei admission mil hi jaayega par mujhe reality pata thi ki mera diploma complete nahi hai toh mera degree college mei admission nahi hoga lekin maine unko nahi bataya so maine bohot research ki and maine study abroad through fully funded scholarship mei dekha so I was like ki msi 12th mei admission le lungi but admission fee bohot hogi mere parents afford nahi kar paayenge so maine NIOS mei 12th ke liye admission le liya hai but they always ask ki tu diploma college mei kab jaayegi Tera lc and marksheet lene lekin mai yeh baat hamesha taal deti hu kyuki agar maine woh baat batayi toh woh meri shaadi karwa denge pls mujhe suggest me ki maine yeh sahi kiya ya nahi aur iske baad mai kya karu”
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Someone answered with kindness...
See personally being a 20 year old girl, I can feel you on another level, mere parents ne bhi mujhe bahut kuch krne ke liye force kiya even when it made me unhappy and lost. But I feel maine wo sb cheeze accept bhi Kiya kyuki mujhe pata hi nhi tha ki agar ye nhi krungi to or kya krungi, and I feel in your case already cheeze bahut twist ho chuki h, I will suggest ki tum decide kro regardless of uske baad kya ho bs decide kro ki kya krna h, like agar tumhe ye aage diploma college me nhi jaana to kaha Jana h decide kro, agar jaha pr ho abhi waha acha nhi lg raha h to kya Krna chahti ho, khudse decide kro or then jo decide krte ho uske sare consequences lene ko bhi taiyar raho kyuki life me esa hoga hi ki cheeze tough lagenge bhi jb tumhe pata hoga ki ye tough maine mere liye choose Kiya h to syad tum uss kam ko kr paoge. Whatever you decide wo decision puri tarah tumhara hona chahiye esa nhi ki mummy ne ye bola papa ne ye bola bs tumhara decision hona chahiye and if anyway tumhe ye lagta h meri shaadi krwadenge to the best decision is education and money. I will suggest tum thoda time lo or ek decision lo apne liye ki padhna h to kya padhna h kidhar padhna h kese padhna h.