Someone once asked...

“I'm 20 and never dated. Idk why tho also no guy has ever asked me out romantically. Ofc some creepy dudes do approach or sends me cheesy texts but not one geniune guy asks me out. Sometimes I think my looks or personality is the problem but I don't think so I'm ugly idk about others but I'm beautiful. Also I have a nice personality. Or its the fact that I'm a Christian and my pastor recommend me to date after 25. Also I don't wanna date unless I'm the dream version of myself or like I've become successful in life. Idk what's wrong”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Ask yourself if dating should be your utmost priority. From your words alone I'm also catching some high hurdles set by yourself. let it go. No guy is more important than your life. Time will tell and time will bring what is meant for you. Peace.

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Another soul answered...

Nothings wrong gurll , your worth or self esteem dosent changes because someone doesn't approach you , all you need is to first participate by interacting first with person you like or the one you think will be good match,, things will not work out at first but , you will sure learn things that will help you in the future, you are in the middle of the process of learning, this won't stop till the day you die , but sure it will make you wiser

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