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โ€œif u r guy, or a girl who has been in a relationship ... please do answer this there's this guy i have liked since a really long time... and few years back we irl started talking and got so close to each other... coz we r too young (just teens) rn... i never asked him to be in a relationship or date... (but i never ever gave him mixed signals or made him confused if i like him or not.... we both knew we both like each other) in school... i asked him not to let anybody know this... not bcoz i was insecure of him, or that i was being toxic... i gave him my actual reasons and he understood and also supported my decision... our schools changed... and tho we were still in contact on a random day he comes to me and says he doesnt feel like before... and he has problems w my looks n that i shld take care of my skin (by removing facial/body hair/applying some makeup) and mind u he has never ever in the past few years ever spoken like this or made me uncomfortable for the way i look or whtsoever and then he adds on saying that maybe he'd find smbody else and then at the same time "no i dont have problem w ur looks but please take of ur skin" "maybe it would be smbody or MAYBE u who i live my future w" like literally saying smtg and then contradicting his own words... and i told him that his comments hurted me so much (its not like i hate myself or i dont like the way i look... i look pretty, hell pretty in my eyes, to me i have the beauty and the brain both) but "him" saying smtg like that about me, hurted me really bad... ik in school i did kept our friendship/relation hidden... but he knew my intention wasnt bad or toxic either.... but i did ask him before taking this decision.... i do not expect him to treat me like some princess... but i really thought he likes me for whoever i am... i really wished he comforted me and told me that it doesnt matter if i have hair on my arm or not .... i just wanted him to see me for who i am and not for wht makeup/facial waxing/whtever cosmetics i do i just want to ask... 1. am i wanting and being too much? 2. do guys randomly change n do this on a random day and forget all wht a girl has done since so long...?โ€

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BBG LISTEN ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ–๐Ÿป You aren't over reacting first of all !!! Bruhhhhh the way he was out in the world roaming he hve seen its nd expecting you to act upon his choices never do tht ! After not being able to meet you he hve seen other ppls how they are and looking blehh mybe many things mybe he hve seen other girls and was attracted to them that's why he's expecting you to change for him. Where he haven't done tht before cause he didn't saw the outside before duh. Leave him am telling you , tell him if he wants a particular type of person go get them. But just DON'T make you insecure just because he thinks like so. You are the prettiest keep believing and loving yourself, mke him insecure instead am telling you he hve hurted you so mke him taste his own medicine bbg like telling him to take care of his physique or smthg and if he exaggerated it then tell him tht his words hurted you too. But if someone can't love for who you are when YOU ARS ALREADY THIS BEAUTIFUL, he deserves nthgggg - advised by a woman

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