“idk how to pour my heart here on.
i had a girl bsf, we dated and then broke up, she knew another ex of mine whom ive met physically and she was more close to me cuz of the physical presence and touch but my bsf wants closure that yes she was never the one for me and i was more closer to whom I met physically. and chat my bsf poured everything in for me, she waited for me and stuff and ofc i too did but I was closer to the one i met and is it right for me and my former bsf to move on even when we typically love eachother but js can't work out and have to move on and she wants a closure in such a way which will destroy her rather than helping her move on? pls reply asap”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Something similar happened to me except the dating and ex part. I had a boy bsf online, ghosted me after 3 yrs, we loved eo. It's been a year since he is gone without any closure and what i can only think of is..what was the reason? Could there have been any other way of ending this? And after all of these things i only wanted proper closure, which ik would destroy me but being ghosted was worse. Tell her, explain your feelings kindly when you have the chance, tell her keeping in your mind that she has feelings too. It will hurt either way, both of you, but we can't force things which are not mean to be.