I just got broken up by my boyfriend of three years. We have been on and off a lot. Because he cheated on me multiple times and yet I kept forgiving him. Now, the longest we have dated without breaking up has been five months and last day he broke up with me with zero warning. He completely cut me off and I am yet again in a deep pit of sadness and heavy feeling. Overall I have been having the shittiest month and my seasonal depression is kicking back in. So on top of this, it was a heavy blow. Yet I love him and miss him a lot. I don't know if I will ever feel loved or could love again.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hey stranger i can feel u i know how hard it must be for u losing someone we love feels like the end of the world but trust me it isn’t every ending comes with new beginnings just don’t lose hope some chapters repeat only so u can learn something maybe this chapter is teaching u to love yourself & value yourself i know how it feels to get cheated on & almost losing all of our confidence and feeling unloved but in order to love someone else we need to love ourselves first maybe god is teaching u to love yourself thats why it repeated this many times this time end this chapter by learning the lesson start loving yourself more than u have ever loved someone & yes we can love someone & still decide to stay away from them for peace nothings wrong in this u don’t have to unlove him just to love yourself let him be & focus on yourself im rooting for u & maybe when the time is right u will find someone who will make u feel loved in all the ways possible just don’t give up yet untill the times has to come keep loving yourself