“I am going through a breakup phase I met the guy online , we talked we shared six good fucking months but then before our relationship, I told him everything about my past and idk why it becomes an issue after we came into the relationship and after four beautiful months he was worried more about my past, I tried to clear his misunderstanding but nothing good happen. I dated two guyz before him and it was normal long distance relationship, little physical involvement and I told him everything but it was never his concern earlier still even he dated a girl for 6 years. Then he started abusing me , wishes that I should be murdered and grapes still and now it's been 7 months since the breakup but I am not able to move on it keeps haunting me and it makes me question am I really a bad person I am just 20 and these things are happening am I really that bad idk what to do”
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Someone answered with kindness...
if a guy can't take a breakup gracefully then you're better off without him. God knows what will happen if there's a disagreement in the future. It's not wrong to have had lovers in the past. If anything it makes you wise. If a guy is angry at you for something that you can't change(in this case, your past) then that is not fair for you. It's time for both of you to evolve without each other. He's a guy who needs to become a gentleman and you need to find a way to love yourself. Treat yourself like how you would treat him and become self sufficient. At the end of the day you will be living with yourself. Find a way to make it happy and find a way to set boundaries. And when it gets mundane, find someone who can make it interesting enough without violating your boundaries.