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““I have been talking to a guy from the past 7 months online and till now we never met .we have got so close these months that now even one day without texting feels like dying. We behave like a couple but without any tag . Even i have asked him for a label for us but he said he is not ready for a relationship because he has his ex trauma but i needed a relationship so i ak compromising that need maybe someday he will give us a title and he said he is trying really hard for US . if i try to keave , he dont let me nor do i feel good withouf him . He said his health is getting so much better with me and his insomnia is reducing too . So i do believe it . But i am little bit confuse so guys can anyone please tell me your point of view on this . Should i wait or what . I dont know about him but i do love him.i can do anything for him. We do fought alot but he always persuads and i do melt even i have blocked him but unblock in a day and even took some breaks but it was hard and i do feel so free nd good in a break where i just finally focus on myself. Otherwisw i just worry for his health nd all he has health problems. One time i needed him so bad and i was crying in public and crying just because of him because we have fighting from a week and i wasnt feeling well so i called him to sort it but he preferred his friends over me and cut the call in 20 minutes hardly and did called back in 2 min but i already had blocked him but a 3 days we went back to normal after sorting it out and he told his friends are there for him in hospitals when he is ill and every other place and all and said i should not compare myself to them.So i listened and agreeed. But after that a part of me got so disappointed if guys it would have been in my hands i will be with him every second ryt . So this is it, tell me guys your views”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I think he just using you for his distraction or whatever. He does not love you and will never love you even if you be with him for years. He will eventually leave. since its only been 7 months it will be easier for you to move on, take it from me, i have experienced this. the more time you give to this boy, more difficult it will be for you to move on later and for him it wont matter now or later i know its harsh but its truth. when he is not there for you when you are unwell or crying , i dont think he will be there in future also. You should be selfish too and think about yourself Take care <3

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Another soul answered...

leave him dude. you both have different wants. you want relationship, he don't. you can't force him into that neither you should. it's not worth it. commitment should be mutual. don't compromise your needs, you aren't obligated to his health. he have people who cares. You can care for him and still chose to not stay. alright.

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Another soul answered...

Hi there... I don't answer too much but seeing your question really made me stop and answer cuz very surprisingly 80% of the stuff that u said were being done by your male aquantaince is something that I too have vividly experienced w a guy that I was with 2years ago, and like u guys we too also were not official and wanted to be without labels and to my surprise he also said his reason to not be in one was because of his ex trauma and how she had dumped her, so i didn't realize anything at this point but after a time being the dynamic between us started to go downhill apparently which I only felt and when I confronted him he reassured me by saying I'm thinking too much abt it and dismissed it and let it go by. But after a long period things only got worse like he started ignoring me, treating me like im non existent sorta stuff and even went out w another women behind my back and a hella lot worse stuff. and after a while year of tolerating all this bullshit I ended things up w him and even had to go therapy, which made me realize that even going into the non label relationship there were signs which clearly indicated that the guy is not right for me but I was too much emotionally involved to evn notice that but later on recalling everything it clocked me that I had infact noticed those signals and still went ahead so dear I would only want to tell u that ik u truly love him there is not a single ounce of doubt in that but if he is not proving himself to be worthy of love and yk when he is not being something or someone he should have been while claiming to love you, you should let him go, even if a little part of you is saying that yes it's not right because our body always knows, then js let the person go, this human being is not worthy of your love and you honey truly deserve to be held with equal love care and passion w what you are offering. rest yk. js do what yr heart is telling u and everything will be fine I promise girl. oh YA after leaving him I genuinely now am doing my best ⚡🥀🩷. Loads of love. And POWER.

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