“I am so shitty. Started dating a guy literally yesterday. In the pre-dating phase, he got me an eyeshadow from china and we hadn't met thereafter - so, it was w him. His lil cousin saw it and asked for it and he couldn't say no.
Got to know this on day 2 of our dating and I feel so terribly sad. If being raw, I want it but I am aware that is just shitty and terrible to take it back from a younger person. Is there any rationality to this response even?
I feel I am not fit for dating”
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Someone answered with kindness...
What ur feeling is completely valid. Simply look at it as, something that belongs to u has left u without ur consent. Obviously ur gonna feel bad, but u didn't make a big deal abt it. It is not wrong to feel pain. It is only wrong if u use it as a weapon wrongly. And u didn't do that at all.
So don't worry, ur boyfriend is also aware that u didn't get the gift, he'll give u smth else again, so just chill, don't overthink. And ur definitely not unfit for dating.
Hope this helps :)