I am a collage undergrad in final year I feel its all wasted no gf no grades nothing in my hand why is it that I am alone and lonly at the same time I feel the downfall has began how how do I fight back I never made a close friend I see everyone loves someone so so much even I love but why dont I get it in return why is it so I am just a good listner but who listnes to me in this case now

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I actually resonate with your thought. I am in my second year of undergrad. I also don't have a bf, don't have a circle at uni. I feel like people around me have it all together, while I'm just existing. And I know that it hurts when someone doesn't reciprocate your love. I have experienced that firsthand. I loved someone for 5 years, and then, finally, when I moved on, he decided to confess, but no, we didn't get into a relationship or anything. However, I don't think you are necessarily in a downfall. Maybe you're just in a phase where a lot of things haven't fallen into the right place yet. And I know it's easy to feel like this when you see people around you doing better in life and you can't help but wonder Where did I go wrong? When will I experience a good time? And I don't know if anything I say will make you feel any better or not, but I will say that always remember that just because you feel like you could've done more doesn't mean you didn't do enough, and just because we don't have a partner or good grades doesn't bring our values down. Cuz one day, when it's our time, we might not even remember these things that made us feel so little in the first place. I hope you have a blessed day!