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I'm a very shy person and have always struggled making friends so I think you can trust my advice: Im not sure how old you are but if you are still in school the first thing you should do is figure out whatever it is you are interested in. Join a club or an extra curricular you are interested in because if no one ever meets you in a group setting they will never talk to you. Once you are in a club or an extra curricular you have narrowed down the hundreds of people in your school to a few people with similar interests as you, bonus points if the club or activity is a little niche. Then the hard part is putting yourself out there. It will be embarrassing sometimes and it will not always work but you can make a lot of friends by speaking with people about something you are both passionate about. It can be difficult if you are shy but just remember that embarrassment is temporary. Do not wait too long to show your real personality, just be yourself even if its a bit weird. being weird or just authentically yourself will chase away anyone who doesn't like it (wrong people for you) and attract people who will absolutely love you. If you are an adult do this as well but just go to places you enjoy like art clubs or favourite spots and do the same thing. It's also very helpful to have a few good jokes and build some confidence and charisma. Also on an unserious note you can message random people on the internet too but i assume you want real friends. Hope this helped!
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Try to listen at first, does anyone talk about any similar hobbies that you like etc.. this genuinely works since you connect easier. Also friends come with time -used to be a loner 💔💔💔😔
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Leave the house. try new things like going to the gym or the library. become friends with your classmates or coworkers, if you dont like your coworkers then quit and find another job. because for me mental health is more important than money. try finding groupchats of people who would like to go out for drinks in your town.
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keep your confidence high, lower your ego, be approachable, and be funny
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