“how to deal with anxious attachment? i have an extremely loving bf but my overthinking still consumes me over the tiniest things- and I don't want to lose him over this at all- so how do I deal with my anxious attachment and abandonment issues?”

Another soul answered...

wait so listen. first of all, u are cared for, valued, and cherished in this world, the best way to deal with something is to face it head on. if you know the man loves you, what is there to fear? your own thoughts are the end of you. you'll never "lose" him if he is the real one, and offers advice, and listens to you. overthinking isn't a bad thing, i do it as a guy too, and please never think that your overthinking is a "problem", and those aren't abondament "issues". the right people stay for the right reasons, bring it up to him, he'll understand, if you already told him, then use reassurence, use facts to falsify your overthinking, and realize that he loves you, and maybe, its the flaws the makes you, you.