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The fact you’re realizing you are stuck in victim mentality is a great start. I believe there is no “best version of ourselves”, as this is not a goal anyone can ever hope to achieve. All you can do is try to be a better version of yourself tomorrow, than you were today. Start small, apologize to the people that deserve it, cut the people who don’t out of your life. Find small things to improve, and motivate yourself to actually do it. It can be as small as deciding to wake up earlier tomorrow and watch outside, or as big as reflecting on what you could do better instead of blaming failure on others. Glueing back the same pieces together again and again creates weak spots, breaking is in this case inevitable. If you take one piece at a time, and melt it down in a big pot, adding pieces every time you feel capable, you end up with a new masterpiece. I mean by this that sometimes we mustn’t hold on to bad habits by trying to change them, but by creating new, better habits.
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