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Hey, first of all, please don't be so hard on yourself for loving someone genuinely. You didn't become a fool just because you waited, hoped, or believed that things might work out someday. You simply had feelings for someone, and there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes, we get so attached to a person that even when we know things aren't going to happen, a small part of us keeps hoping that maybe one day everything will change. But you know what? Not everyone who comes into our lives is meant to stay, and not everyone we love is meant to love us back. Maybe God doesn't always give us what we want because He knows there's something else we need, something better that we might not understand right now. Maybe this was just one of those experiences that will teach you what you deserve, how to value yourself, and how important it is to never lose yourself while loving someone else. And please, don't blame yourself for believing his mixed signals or for having expectations. You were genuine with your feelings, and that's never something to be ashamed of. I know moving on doesn't mean you suddenly forget everything, and it's completely okay if some memories still come back sometimes. Healing takes time, so don't force yourself to forget him overnight. Just don't let someone who couldn't return your feelings make you question your worth. You deserve someone who chooses you without confusion, someone who doesn't make you constantly wonder whether they care or not. Until then, focus on yourself, your happiness, and everything beautiful that's waiting ahead of you. Trust God's timing. Sometimes what feels like losing someone is actually life making room for something much better. ❤️
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