Hii
Im 20 year old and in my last year of ug degree. I feel so lost I don't know what I want to do in my career.i was a good student but after my high school I just lost all the spark .I feel so dumb and behind from other people I know. Everyone is either planning to do masters or preparing for any exam they all are so focused and here I'm feeling lost , confused . It's been almost 2 years I overthink about it everyday . I feel so stressed and anxious all the time. I stopped going out with my friends because I feel ashamed and feel like I don't deserve to even sit with them and always distance myself from my friends. I don't even feel confident in myself I stopped going to gym that made me gain weight. I feel horrible physically and mentally. I know I have potential if I lock in I can do anything but I'm so confused about my life choices and overthink so much that I don't do anything. I have to do so much in my life but just feeling like I'm burden in my family . They deserve so much happiness they have so much faith in me but here I'm just wasting my time and everyday feel horrible and spend most of my time on bed or phone knowing that I m wasting time. So yeah this is what I wanted to share.

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Hii 
Im 20 year old and in my last year of ug degree. I feel so lost I don't know what I want to do in my career.i was a good student but after my high school I just lost all the spark .I feel so dumb and behind from other people I know. Everyone is either planning to do masters or preparing for any exam they all are so focused and here I'm feeling lost , confused . It's been almost 2 years I overthink about it everyday . I feel so stressed and anxious all the time. I stopped going out with my friends because I feel ashamed and feel like I don't deserve to even sit with them and always distance myself from my friends. I don't even feel confident in myself I stopped going to gym that made me gain weight. I feel horrible physically and mentally. I know I have potential if I lock in I can do anything but I'm so confused about my life choices and overthink so much that I don't do anything. I have to do so much in my life but just feeling like I'm burden in my family . They deserve so much happiness they have so much faith in me but here I'm just wasting my time and everyday feel horrible and spend most of my time on bed or phone knowing that I m wasting time. So yeah this is what I wanted to share.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hey 
As a 22 year old myself 
I was very lost as well but sometimes doors open very unexpectedly 
Don't overthink this confusion happens to everyone 
You have come so far along so what's makes you think you can't do the rest 
It is totally normal to be confused,  just enjoy your time at college apply for jobs if that's what you are looking forward to 
First recognize your interests and if they align with your course and then research to see if there are jobs in that area 
In your case working for some time before going for masters might be nice so just research 
Your family is proud that you have come this far and when time is right I am sure you will shine